We are all looking for these signs as they will make it all better. He is not talking and you need to know where you stand because that knowledge comes with peace of mind.
It is hard for men to express their feelings; I still don’t know the reason for this but what I can tell you is although every man is different some character traits possess serious resemblances.
One is the way they act around a woman that has the key to their hearts in her back pocket. There are a thousand and one of them; the signs he wants you bad. If he likes you at least a few of them will be present in your everyday life.
I first noticed this a few years ago, I lived with my younger brother for three years and I can proudly say that it is the best decision I made as a woman. I wasn’t old enough to watch the process with my elder brothers but I made up by watching him grow.
Every boy temporarily becomes an addict after his first experience with a woman – they visit the meeting of a woman’s thighs and dream of going back there every night.
He was 20 when he had his first taste of a woman’s glory, I knew because he came back from a friend’s party so hyped.
The mood was just ten times brighter than it normally was and his breath had alcohol in it but for the first time he drank but he wasn’t drunk.
He denied it at first but opened up a few days later when she asked to visit him. He told me two days prior that I had to leave the house; we stayed in a one-bedroom plus den apartment.
I didn’t see a need to leave because I could just sleep in the living room or den – this was where he slept most of the time.
I didn’t see a reason to because he didn’t give me one but I left and slept at my best friend’s place, not so far from ours.
I had to rush back to the house to get my sleep clothes and I lie you not, I stepped out and check the number on the door to make sure I was in the right place.
For the very first time, I saw my room clean beyond human comprehension. I am not saying we lived like pigs but then this level of cleanliness was different from the norm.
She was beautiful and I think they had a good time but the relationship didn’t last. She soon moved to London for school and distance became a barrier.
After her, he didn’t see to get along romantically with girls although he had female friends. I guess it was just the trauma of losing your first love.
We are supposed to be talking about some of the signs he wants you bad, so you may be wondering why this unrelating story.
Well, he began to like this girl – her name was Sarah. He never said anything to me or her and I believe it had something to do with his first experience with love and how he wanted to avoid going through that road again.
Now you are wondering how I knew he liked her a lot and wanted her even when he said nothing to me. Well, because like I said, these things show themselves whether he likes it or not.
He began to exhibit some of the signs he wants you bad, I won’t bore you with my brother’s story as his signs may not be the ones your man exhibits.
A man can exhibit a few of the signs he wants you bad but what should be important to you is the reason behind his actions.
Why does he like you? It is difficult to understand because of our natural ability to pretend – the key is not to just look at the signs but to look deep and think through all of his actions.
He may be wanting to talk to you always but the nature of the conversation could suggest he likes you only because you are connected to someone he wants to get to.
The truth is these signs sometimes point towards a particular direction, not just him liking you in general because there are a thousand and one reasons a man would be liking you.
It could be because you have something or know something he desires, it could be the case we are all praying for which is for him to want to spend the rest of his life with but sometimes it could also be that he just wants you in bed.
However, regardless of his intentions – the signs will always be there, and here are some signs he wants you in bed;
1. The most glaring of the signs he wants you bad on his sheets would be the fact that he always offers massages (shoulder, hand, or full body).
2. He loves to cuddle you when you lay in the same bed.
3. Whenever you visit him, he makes you stay in the bedroom.
4. The movies and music he plays when both of you are together could be one of the signs he wants you bad (+18 romantic movies).
5. He will suggest you spend the night at his place most of the time.
6. He dishes out hugs and kisses to you whenever he has the chance to.
7. Whenever you just, he is always alone regardless of how many people he lives with.
8. 90% of the times, he plans romantic stay at home dates; it is easy to kick it off from the house than on the way home from a restaurant.
9. His appearances keep improving to suit your kind of man.
10. He becomes jittery and nervous whenever he is around you, especially when he is close enough to get a kiss.
11. He spends a lot of time with you; offline and online.
12. He keeps doing stuff he wouldn’t normally do to gain your trust and attention.
13. Just to sound romantic especially on the phone; he fakes his natural voice.
The signs he wants to make love to you are much more than these but this is not always the case. It is amazing how he has little or no control over most of the signs he wants you bad.
However, not every guy is eager to get you switching positions on his bed – some just want to call you’re their sunflower until they stop seeing the sun.
Although statistics show that a man would open up about his feelings three times faster than a woman, some men would rather just want to show you signs and hope that somehow you figure it out.
Most times they do this to avoid the embarrassment that comes with rejection, it could also be a source of food for his ego or maybe he wants to just keep doing what he is doing in hopes that it makes you like him even more.
He may have decided that opening up to you on how he feels would be the last thing he does but this information will always be available to those who look carefully because even if his mouth is made up, his body and soul forget the agreement and acts differently sometimes.
Here are a few of the signs a man is attracted to you;
1. You just feel the energy and vibe from how he acts around you.
2. In an attempt to study you like a university course; he always asks questions (wants to know you better).
3. He believes givers never lack and he keeps giving you gifts, hoping you won’t stop loving him.
4. There is just something in your eyes, face, and body that he can’t seem to get enough of, so he stares at you a lot.
5. He gets emotional when you are alone and having deep conversations.
6. It is almost a certainty that you are the one he would dial if he gets drunk.
7. He always wants to show you off even when he knows you are not his’ to show off.
8. He consistently showers you with attention.
9. He is almost always the one initiating the contact (7/10 rule i.e 7 out of 10 times he is the one who reaches out).
10. You can see the number of efforts he invests in you.
11. His replies when you speak are almost always well thought out.
12. His house and toilet are always flawless when you visit.
13. He sells himself on what a great boyfriend he would make.
14. The most obvious signs he wants you bad is when he says it.
15. He laughs at everything you say; all the not so funny jokes you tell.
16. He is ready to pay for everything as far as it makes you happy.
17. He is not putting intimacy pressure on you; not in a hurry to go naked under the duvet.
18. He introduces you to his family and friends; the inner circle knows you.
19. He is frequently asking you out on different kinds of dates.
20. He is never late when it involves him meeting up with you.
21. He gets rid of all the dating apps on his phone.
22. He wants you to know how his life runs.
23. He is honest at least when it involves you.
24. He leaves both his ears on your nightstand and shuts down every other part of his body except his brain when you want to speak.
25. Asides from being jealous when he sees you with other people, he gets protective when you are with him.
26. In a bit to reciprocate his heart’s current situation in yours, he acts as the perfect gentleman in your presence.
So many ways to identify him; a lot of body language signs he wants you bad but like I said before ‘these signs are only available to those who look carefully’ not closely.
I say this because a man could exhibit most of these signs and just want to have his way with you. He just does all these things to make you think he wants you in his life forever when all he wants is your body.
The key to knowing the difference in both most times is consistency and the combo of signs he is showing you. If he just desires your body; there are some signs that he won’t display and even if he does, it wouldn’t be a forever thing.
So, it is not enough to see a sign and get all your hopes up, for the sake of guarding your heart – we should be more careful with the affairs of love than we are during the war.
Regardless of everything, I just said, these are a few of the signs he wants you bad and is probably too shy or proud to say it.
You came here because Juan is being nice to you always and it gets you confused because you lack an understanding of his true intentions.
I hope you have seen something between these lines that opens your eyes to see all that has been hidden from you.
As usual, I will be waiting in the comment section to start a conversation with you and listen to all the wonderful other signs he shows you which you think goes to say that he is into you.
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